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الحمد لله والصلاة والسلام على رسول الله
وعلى آله وصحبه أجمعين ومن تبعهم بإحسان إلى يوم الدين
اللهم اجعلنا منهم
With the Name of The One True God, Allāh, The Infinitely Caring, Eternally Compassionate. We sincerely praise and thank God to the highest extent, and ask Him to bless, protect, honor, and compliment our Prophet and Messenger Muḥammad, his family, his companions, and those that diligently follow them until the end of times. Dear God, please include us from amongst them.
As we reach the end of this beautiful and amazing month of Ramaḍān, we ask Allāh to accept from us, increase us in goodness, and to be happy and pleased with us. And we ask Him to allow us to reach the special day of Eid al-Fiṭr so we can attend the Eid Prayer, pray together, declare Allāh’s Greatness, and greet our beloved family, friends, and community members.
Overview
Eid al-Fiṭr is the first of the two Islamic holidays in the lunar year (the second being Eid al-Aḍḥā). The day celebrates the end of fasting during the blessed month of Ramaḍān. It is a day wherein we typically gather for a congregational ritual prayer and sermon in the morning, often followed by meeting with friends and family to celebrate the day by exchanging gifts and eating together.
Ṣadaqah al-Fiṭr/Zakāh al-Fiṭr
“Zakāh al-Fiṭr,” also known as “Ṣadaqah al-Fiṭr,” is a specific charity that is due before the Eid prayer. It is a means for the mistakes that we made while fasting to be overlooked, and for the needy to have a meal. Ibn ʿAbbās (raḍiy Allāh ʿanhumā) told us that the Prophet ﷺ mandated Zakāh al-Fiṭr as a means to clean and overlook the useless and obscene speech of those who fasted, and a means of food for the poor.
The Prophet ﷺ has taught us that those Muslims who are able to pay Zakāh al-Fiṭr must pay it. The amount that is to be given differs slightly based on the foodstuff calculation, but is safely estimated to be around $15. It is due upon each and every Muslim - man or woman, child or adult. The head of the household is responsible to pay it on behalf of all non-adult Muslim children. The head of the household can also pay on behalf of everyone in the house. If one has not paid before the prayer, one is still required to pay after the prayer.
Recommended Actions
Eid is strongly rooted in declaring the greatness of our Lord and Master, Allāh ﷻ. As God Himself says, “[It is so that] you declare God to be the absolute greatest because He has guided you, and so that you are grateful.” With that comes the emulation of both the mindset and actions of our Prophet Muḥammad ﷺ. Here are a number of things that the Prophet ﷺ taught us to do on this beautiful day:
- Be extra clean. Shower (ghusl), brush your teeth, use miswāk, and smell good. The Prophet ﷺ compared Friday to Eid and told us: “This day [Friday] is a day of Eid and celebration. So whoever comes to the Friday prayer should bathe, apply perfume if they have any, and use the miswāk (tooth-stick).” The Prophet ﷺ told us to be extra clean because it is an “Eid.” Therefore, on Eid al-Fiṭr, we should follow this sunnah.
- Wear nice, clean clothes. It does not have to be new, but it should be clean, ironed, and nicer than your daily outfit. In following this recommendation, ʿUmar (raḍiy Allāh ʿanh) once bought a nice outfit to give to the Prophet ﷺ and said, “wear it to look nice on Eid.”
- Eat an odd number of dates before the Eid prayer. The young companion of the Prophet ﷺ, Anas (raḍiy Allāh ʿanh), taught us that the Prophet ﷺ would not leave his house for Eid al-Fiṭr prayer until he ﷺ ate an odd number of dates. If dates are unavailable, one may eat anything sweet to fulfill this sunnah.
- Recite the takbīrāt of Eid. That is to say — اَللهُ أَكْبَرُ اَللهُ أَكْبَرُ اَللهُ أَكْبَرُ لَا إِلٰهَ إِلَّا اللهُ وَاَللهُ أَكْبَرُ اَللهُ أَكْبَرُ وَلِلَّهِ الْحَمْدُ — Allāhu Akbar, Allāhu Akbar, Allāhu Akbar, lā ilāha illā Allāh, Allāhu Akbar, Allāhu Akbar, wa li-llāh al-Ḥamd. God is Greater, God is Greater, God is Greater. There is no God except Allāh. God is Greater, God is Greater. The most perfect and complete praise and thanks belongs solely to God.
It should be recited happily and aloud.
- Return home from a different route. The companion, Jābir (raḍiy Allāh ʿanh), told us that the Prophet ﷺ would take a different route when going to and returning from the Eid prayer area. Someone can make their way to the Prayer Area via the freeway, and return via surface streets, for example. Or head towards the Prayer Area from one direction, and return home via the opposite direction.
- Meet and greet others with phrases of acceptance. Some of the Companions (raḍiy Allāh ʿanhum), upon meeting each other on Eid, would say تَقَبَّل اللَّهُ مِنّا ومِنك — “May God accept from you and us.” It is not necessary to say this in Arabic; one may convey greetings of acceptance in any language.
FAQs
- Can women attend the Eid Prayers?
- Yes, they absolutely can and should. All women are highly encouraged to partake in the Eid Prayer with the entire community. If a woman is on her period (menses), and is not praying, then she can and still should attend, but should try and sit in any place that is not technically considered “Masjid” (i.e., outside, the lawn, tents, foyer, lobby).
- Can I pray Eid Ṣalāh at home if I personally don’t feel comfortable bringing my elderly parent(s) and/or child(ren) and don’t want to pray without my family?
- According to the Ḥanafīs, Eid Prayer is Necessary (wājib) for an adult male upon whom Jumu'ah is usually an obligation (farḍ). Not wanting to go to the communal Eid Congregation without one's family is not a valid reason for that individual to not pray with the Communal Eid Congregation, nor to pray at home. This is in regards to someone being uncomfortable bringing a member of the household, as opposed to someone being advised by a medical doctor that leaving the home would put other members of the household at risk.
- According to the Shāfiʿīs, Eid Prayer is Sunnah Muʾakkadah. Someone who is unable to bring their family to the Communal Eid Prayers may pray the Eid Prayer at home. However, they should not give an Eid Khuṭbah (Sermon) in their congregation at home.
- According to the Ḥanbalīs, Eid Prayer is a Communal Obligation (Farḍ Kifāyah). So if someone is unable to make it, there is no blame or sin upon them at all. If someone is able to attend the communal Eid Prayer and are able to leave other members of the household at home, then they should but are not obligated to do so. But if they are not able to leave other members of the household at home, then that will be a valid reason for them to miss the Eid Prayer, and thus, they can pray the Eid Prayer at home (for more information see question #5).
- Do I have to attend the Eid Prayers?
- Can I pray Eid Prayers at home by myself or with my family?
- One cannot default to praying Eid Ṣalāh at home if there none of the above-listed excuses are present. Details can be found in this article https://iokchess.com/eid-al-fitr-in-2021/ in the section titled, Can I hold my own Eid Prayer at home?
- How do I perform the Eid Prayers?
- One should only be performing the Eid Prayers on their own if they were not able to attend their local congregation. A detailed overview can be found here: How to Spend Eid in Quarantine.
- Can I attend multiple Eid Prayers?
- One should not partake in multiple Eid Prayers. This is not only due to religious reasons, but also because someone who has already prayed Eid Ṣalāh should allow others to have a spot at another congregation.
- Can I pray any extra prayers before or after Eid Ṣalāh?
- One should avoid praying anything but the Eid Prayers while at the place where Eid is being performed, unless one needs to make up the Fajr of that day.
- I missed the first and/or second unit of Eid Ṣalāh, what should I do?
- You make up the rakaʿah (unit) along with the additional takbīrs. The number of additional takbīrs can vary, but most places in Greater LA will do an additional 7 takbīrs (before recitation) in the first unit (rakʿah), and an additional 5 takbīrs (before recitation) in the second unit (rakʿah). If the unit (rakʿah) is made up without the additional takbīrs, there is no blame, and nothing additional needs to be done.
- I caught the first unit (rakaʿah) with the Imām, but I joined after he completed the extra takbīrs. Do I have to make them up?
- If possible, yes. There are 3 possible scenarios
- If you joined while the Imām is still standing, say the extra takbīrs individually even if the imam is reciting Qurʾān.
- If the Imām is in rukūʿ, but you think you have enough time to do the extra takbīrs, say the extra takbīrs and then go into rukūʿ.
- If the Imām is in rukūʿ, but you don’t have enough time to say the extra takbīrs and join the Imām before going into rukūʿ, join the Imām in rukūʿ and say as many of the additional takbīrs as you can while in rukūʿ. If you don’t complete all the extra takbīrs and the Imām stand up from rukūʿ, stand up with the Imām. You do not have to complete the additional takbīrs in this case.
- Can Eid Ṣalāh be performed at the Masjid?
- Yes. It is completely valid. The Sunnah is to perform it in a large public open space, but if that is not available, praying at a Masjid is absolutely permissible.
- Can I pray Eid Ṣalāh in the street if there’s no capacity in the main prayer area?
- One should only pray in sections designated by their local Masjid/Community leadership. One should not pray wherever they feel like.
- I broke my wuḍūʾ right before or during the Eid Ṣalāh and the bathrooms are closed and/or too far. What should I do?
- In this case, one can perform tayammum (dry ablution). One can simply tap their hands on any earthen material (dirt, rocks, cement, uncoated marble, bricks), then wipe their face. And repeat a tap to the earthen material, and wipe the entirety of their arms (from the tip of one's fingertips up to and including the elbows). If one does not have access to those materials, then they can stay seated and not pray. This person would then have a choice between not praying anything as a substitute, or by praying Eid alone at home. Details can be found in this article https://iokchess.com/eid-al-fitr-in-2021/ in the section titled, Should I attend the Eid Prayers?
- Can I pray behind a remote/live-streamed Imām?
- No. The vast majority of scholars opine that one cannot pray along with a live-streamed prayer.
- To whom should I give my Ṣadaqah al-Fiṭr?
- It can be given to any organization that will distribute it to those who are in need. It can also be given directly to an individual who is unable to provide food for his or herself.
- Can I fast on Eid?
- No. The Prophet ﷺ forbade us from fasting on Eid. One can resume fasting from the day after (the 2nd of Shawwāl).
- Is it recommended to hug each other on Eid? What about 3 hugs?
- Hugging is something that, in our culture, is a way for Muslims to show care and express happiness. As such, it is completely allowed, and can even be considered a good action. One can and very much should hug their loved ones, and show them love and affection. Be that through one hug, or ten, or through other cultural norms.
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